how to test a true guy -覆Leng Leng

 

Dearest Zita,

I love to read your reply is
very meaningful, but anyway I don't waste your time.

I am 23 year old now, I was back from Canada last summer and I was broke
up with my 8 years boyfriend due to the long-distance, he is not mature,
no feeling, family problems

etc...(This is my first love,
so I am lack of love experience.)

But within this year (after we have break up) I can't find and even
meet a guy which will treat me serious in HK. Is it the culture different?
The guys in Canada are more true, loyal and down to earth. I have no
idea why most of the guys in HK love to play game. OR is 緣份 hasn't come
yet during my case?

I also want to ask I have met a lot of guys within this year. (about
10 guys they all are having different age and academic background, some
also professional.) But I find myself don't know how differentiate the
guy is true love or playing game. Moreover, I don't know how to choose
a guy. I know that I need a mature, reliable, a good guy, but may be
due to my career I can't meet a guy like such. Is it just trust timing
and 緣份, and take it easy? Please teach me how to feel and test a true
guy? (Is it just choose the one that love me more than I do? But ironically
speaking is difficult to love a person which he loves me but I don't
really loves him.)

Your audience always,


Leng Leng




Dear Leng Leng︰

要遇上認真而誠懇的好男仔,如你所言,是綠份和timing,另外,你的態度也很重要。

如果,你表現輕浮,吸引到的自然是賤男人。

要測試男人是否認真,第一,你要告訴他,你的擇偶條件最重視誠意,男人一定要有誠意,要不然,你一定不會考慮。

如果他聽完你的偉論後也追求你,他便是有誠意。

第二,不要與男人發生性關係,這一點才最重要,你不肯給他,他還繼續約你,他就是真心喜歡你。

而你要記住,以上兩點,你皆不可讓步。你一退讓,測試結果就不成立。

深雪覆