突然消失 – 覆Mary

 

Dear Zita,

I have read you messages for
a long time and enjoy reading it. I have the following problem, and
hope you can give me a little comment.

I know a man for around six months, on the first few months, we treat
each other like a friend, he pick me up after work every week, we went
to have

dinner and movies once a while.
He invited me to have dinner and party with his friends, his friends
think I am his girl friend, however, he never say a word that I am his
girl friend.

He gave me gifts after his vacation trip, and gave me X'mas gift. Of
course, I have returned birthday and X'mas gifts to him. On X'mas and
New year this year, he invited me to his family gathering. At that time,
I know his brothers and mother. I have a great time with him and his
family.

The last time we have together with him was in his New Year family gathering,
after that day, his disappeared, I have called him once, but he did
not return my call, up to today, we have not contact with each other
for around two months. I know he is fine but don't want to see me.

I have the following questions:

Did he treat me as his girl friend even he did not say anything?

I don't know why he disappear without tell me a word, what should I
do?

Should I keep waiting for his return?

I keep think I create a problem so that I (he) did not want to see me
or his mother don't like me. I hope you can tell me what should I do.
Thanks.


Mary




Dear Mary︰

當男人一到達一個他認為要認真的階段時,他便會退縮。

倘若他覺得你百分百合意,他與你都能安然渡過,然後正式成為對方的另一半。

這次的遭遇,明顯是他正處於一個考慮之中,又或是,他已經否定了你。

他不覆機,你由得他,你已經致電了他數次,你已盡了尋找真相的責任。

暫時,請你忘記他。到一天他肯定了他的心中所想,他會找你。

如果他永遠不找你,你就另外再覓良緣。

深雪覆

 

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