Personal space – 覆Campbell

 

Hello
Zita,

It's my 2nd time writing you.
Hope you can help me this time again!

As I told you before on the 1st letter, I always wanted to see my bf.
I remember you asked me to be a more independent person, or else I won't
be able to "survive" in a relationship.



Now here's my another question. My bf is the kind of guy in need of a
lot of personal space, he may ask for even more personal space than a
normal guy. But I'm the kind of girl in need of a lot of attention. I
know my bf has been doing his best to accompany me for most of the time.
But sometimes he does get tired and sick of being with me almost every
day! We have fights about the issue for thousands times! And I have been
doing my best to be independent and more mature. I don't want to get into
this kind of fight in the future. I want a happy relationship with my
bf. We do love each other but only this personal space thing that we can't
compromise. Zita, could you help me out?


Campbell




Dear Campbell︰

看來你要再下一城。

你要找些朋友,每個週末也要有自己的節目。目的是讓你不用主動找男朋友,而當男朋友找你去街時,你甚至可以高傲地推搪他。

這樣子,你會發現,他會愈來愈想親近你。你愈不讓他見你,他愈想得到你。

深雪覆

 

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