Still was about my ex – 覆Udon

Dear
Zita,

To cut a long story short.
We met each other on the net and finally became an item. He was in Europe
while I was in HKG. We had a LD relationship for 18 months until April
99. The reasons we broke up were: physical distance and he told me he
wasn't ready to get married yet. He had plans to move over to be with

me,
neither did we know when and whether we would end up being together for
real. I've not been in another relationship while he met someone 6 months
after we split and his company happened to send him over to be with her.
We still write emails to each other from time to time, whenever he mentioned
about his gf (not in specific details), I realized I still miss him so
much that it hurts.

If you were me, would you still keep in touch with him? I tried to stop
writing to him but he would always write like one month later and asked
me if I received his email blah blah blah.


Udon



Dear Udon ︰

換轉是從前,我不會再與他聯絡,那時候我也似你,很容易覺得受傷害,因此,不肯亦不敢與前度男友們聯絡。

但今日,我才知道人生的偶遇是何等難得,太難得了,我不會願意失去一名互相相愛過的人,只是做朋友,也好。

你順其自然吧,想覆他就覆他,想不覆就不覆,不用故意地決絕。

深雪覆