Affair with a married man – 覆Beatice

Dear
Zita,

I've been with a married man
for a year. I want to develop a long-term relationship with him and
urge him to divorce. A few months ago he told me about his plan and
said he would thought about how to take action. But he takes no action,
when I ask him now, he just tells me that it's a very


difficult situation, he wants to have more time to think and to consider.

I've given him a deadline, if he doesn't give me a concrete answer, I'll
leave him. But he refuses and asks me not to urge him.

I'm afraid that I can't find another one who I love so much. I have lots
of worries. Although I told him that I would leave him, I'm to (too) weak
to live without him.

Please help.

Regards,


Beatice



Dear Beatice︰

不要迫他,尤其是你那麼愛他。

他說他要時間,你就給他時間吧。

你心情不好,想不通時,不如自己一個人往外國走走,這是有效的。

離婚是大件事,決定要揀你亦一樣,他想得清清楚楚了,對你與他只有好處。

深雪覆