我們有將來嗎? – 覆Kitty

Dear
Zita,

I am 25 years old. I have together
with my boyfriend for 7 months and he dated me for 3 years. Normally,
he treat me quite well and I feel he love me much, and I love him much
too. But, he sometimes seems very uncare of me and he can give up me
easily. And he complained I am always get angry with him and we

have
too many different view point. And he said he can't talk with me beacuse
(because) I will angry once he talk. He always say words to hurt me and
make me cry, and he promised he won't treat me bad again, but it happens
again and again.

Actually, how to handle a man?
He has promised me he will love me forever and will marry me, are their
promise always false. I don't want to face the break up which may happen
in the future and I need commitment in love. I can't afford a relationship
without feeling. Should I leave him and let him know he really need me
and love me? But I really can't do that easily, because I really love
him and need him.

What should I do? Do he really
love me and want to together with me forever.


Kitty



Dear Kitty︰

你們二人都不成熟。如果你認為這樣不快樂與不合拍也該一起的話,你就應該向他坦白你的不快樂。

然後,買兩本John Gray的男女關係參考書學習一下,如何與男人相處。

有時候未必你有錯,而是他有錯。因此,最好,你也送一本John Gray的著作給他,大家齊齊進步。

深雪覆