應否相信他 – 覆Sze

 

Hi Zita,

I've been with my boyfriend
for almost 4 years, and we are planning to get marry very soon. However,
something happen that make me step back. I accidentally found out that
there is a girl's photo in his wallet. He explained to me that the girl
is his friend's friend. She was going back to Japan, that's why she
gave


everyone her photo, just like a gift.

He said he almost forgot about this matter (the photo in his wallet),
but I'm sure that when I opened his wallet, he asked me not to do so.
I'm so confused, should I believe what he said? He didn't tell me till
I found out the photo. So is it just an excuse? This makes me so uncomfortable,
even though he treats me quite good, giving me all his salary, and emphasized
that there is nothing happen between them, but I still think that men
always tell lies.

Zita, could you tell me what should I do?

Thanks so much.

Regards,


Sze




Dear Sze︰

非常有趣的事件。

如果他與相中人真有任何關係,也叫做算了,你與他不是快要結婚嗎?而且你有齊他的薪金啊!現今的女人之中,你算是有安全感。

男人一日無錢,男人也會乖。

你就可憐一下他,容許他發一次綺夢吧!


深雪覆