吵架而已 – 覆阿雪

Dear
Zita,

I hope u can give me some advices
for my problem, cuz I can't discuss this with my friends, and I hope
you don't mind me typing in English cuz I'm too lazy to type in Chinese
la…hehhee.

I've knew him for a few months already la. He's 3 yrs older than me.

Surprisingly
our birthday is the same! When we meet each other every week in a scouts
meeting, I remember the first day we met each other, I didn't know anybody.
He came talk to me initially. When we see each other every week in the
scouts meeting, I usually don't go talk to him, so he's usually the one
who comes to me and talk to me. A month ago he asked for my icq# wor...
so I gave him la... and we started chatting on icq...he asked me twice
to go play badminton with him but I refused to cuz it's too far from my
home... then the next day he asked for my cell # and he said if I'm bored
I can call him sometime.... and I said he can do the same thing too...
few days later he asked me to go have a drink with him... so I did la....
well that nite nth (nothing) happened… we just had a drink and talked
and he drove me home... he was too dumb... he didn't know that I like
him... but the next day... I kept on asking him if he likes my frd (friend)
(or at least interested) cuz he saw her picture and kept on saying that
she's pretty and blah blah blah...

But he said he's not... and he said he's so sad now cuz he got rejected
by a girl... I was so sad cuz I wasn't the one he likes... then later
on... he asked me y (why) I'm so sad and I told him that the guy I like,
likes another girl... but he got rejected... I couldn't believe it, he
didn't know that I was talking about him... and he kept on telling me
not to be sad ar..... and stuff like that...but he's getting weirder these
days... he hasn't talked to me since last Saturday... so I thought that
if he wasn't going to talk to me, I wouldn't either... so we haven't talked
to each other till last Friday... that nite after the scouts meeting,
he talked to me again in icq... maybe it was cuz he noticed that I didn't
talk to him and didn't even take a glance at him at the scouts meeting...
so he talked to me lor... but 2 days later (last Sunday) we kind had a
fight in icq...... he said he wouldn't believe in whatever I said... I
dunno y (why) he said such things...

Like... a while ago he mentioned sth (somethings) similar ga la... but
only it wasn't quite serious...

It all started when I was just kidding about I'm a 乖乖女... and then he
said sth (somethings) like ..."ha!!" and I'm like..."what
kind attitude was that?" and he replied "maybe not believe gwa"
so I was like "fine..... u wont ever believe in whatever I say..."
and then he said "of coz!!" and I said "what dun u believe
in me?" and he said "whatever you said." then I said "乜你咁架..."
and he said "hai ar... me hai gum ga la...." and I asked "when
did I lie to u anyways?" and he said "I don't know..."
and I said "u hurt my feelings la!" and u know what he said?
He said "so?" I'm like...what the freak?! so I said "just
trying to tell u that u're mean?" and he said "I'm mean..."
and then I said "u're only mean to me. That's all!" and he said
"no... I'm mean to some other ppl (people) too" and then I said
"ha!" and nth (nothing) more...

He's never been like this to me
b4 (before)... and now we dun talk anymore...y (why) did he treat me this
way? I still remembered what he used to be like...What should I do now?

Pls reply, Thx!


阿雪



Dear 阿雪︰

雖然你的信很長,但我看到的只是朋友之間的吵架,沒甚麼太大不了。

你喜歡他,他不知道,就算了吧。如果你真的十分十分喜歡他,其實你可以放膽表白一次,用ICQ吧,不用面對面說。

有時候,我們會任性地向好朋友發脾氣。你不必每句說話拿出來分析,根本無必要。

深雪覆