他不想有性 – 覆Baby

Dear
Zita,

I wrote you a letter about
2 months ago and it's about my boyfriend who started seeing his ex when
he was dating me. You told me that "他與那名三十六歲的前度女友一定會散,你大可放心。我看,只要你不迫他,他反而會乖乖聽你話和珍惜你。"
I followed your words and didn't force

him
to dump her. He finally dumped her and said he treasures our relationship
and only loves me.

But he admitted that he had sex with her when they're back together. Although
this is within my expectation, I was very upset when it came out from
his mouth. He even told me his sex drive for me is not that much sometimes.
He said "I don't know why it's like this. Can we find a solution?"
I know maybe the "freshness" has gone but he did have sex with
his ex when they're back together, and he said he doesn't love her but
only cares about her. She is supposed to be less "fresh" than
me right? He said he loves me but doesn't wanna make love to me. How come?

Zita, I'm real frustrated. I can always picture the 2 of them having sex.
It's easy to forgive but hard to forget. Maybe sometimes it's better not
to know too much right? I hope you can give me some advices again.

Regards,


Baby



Dear Baby︰

性的吸引力是一件太妙的事,有些人不相愛,卻就有滿意非常的性愛。

你與他的ex正是這一種,愛情已無,但性侶伴的關係卻繼續。

他說你在性方面的吸引力不夠,我認為是嚴重問題,亦是這原因,他要出外偷食。你最好與他砌磋一下,看看有否改進的方法。

不要覺得蒙羞,性是男女間極重要的事情,性生活美滿,愛情生活也會提昇。而且,性方面夠吸引力的女人,桃花自然旺盛。作為女朋友,給男友愉快的性,他開心之餘,你又安樂。

深雪覆

 

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