Hi! I know sometimes the questions
we ask are very alike but I hope you won't find us troublesome... We
really need your advice!
I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We have been dating for a year and I
found out that he has been together
with his ex again for 7 months.
She is 36 & they broke up because of me. He says he doesn't love
her at all, but she helped him a lot before for his financial problems
& she's really upset after they broke up & was once hospitalized
because refused to eat. So he just wants to make her feel better &
he knows they won't have a future.
I know that this woman knows about me but it seems that she doesn't
care much. Maybe she really can share her boyfriend with someone. But
I can't. We broke up 2 months ago and told him to leave her or else
I won't be his girlfriend again. He still hasn't dumped her yet &
said he wants to wait for the sum of money he'll get next month, &
give it to her when dumping her. This will make himself less guilty
& he asked me to wait for him. I don't know how to trust him again
because he lied a lot before.
I know I can't give him too much pressure but the whole thing is killing
me. I've tried to date other guys but just can't get over him. Can you
give me some advice? Thanks a lot Zita.