I disturb his life – 覆LWC

Dear
Zita,

I read your books but i still
can't solve my problems. So please give me some advice.

My boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months, and we broke up for
almost 4 months and i still can't foregt (forget) him. But he has another
girl in his mind already and

she's my roommate and she has
a boyfriend who is a friend of my ex-bf.

After I broke up with him, I said a lot bad things about him like how
bad he treats me etc to my friends (we are in the same ground, so my
friends is equal to his friends.). And of course, people said what I
said about him and he sent me email that he cannot understand me why
we are not together now and I still say bad things of him. And I replyed
(replied) him as i wanna acquit ,i don't want other people to think
he's a nice guy because he left me and hurt me.

Zita, do u think I have mental problem? I think if I can't be the one
he love, I want him to hate me, at least i am still in his mind but
just the suitation (situation) has changed from love to hate. Please
teach me what should I do.

Thank you for yr paitent (patience).

Cheers,

LWC


 



Dear LWC︰

你這樣做有甚麼好處?我一點也看不出你會有任何裨益。

你該努力找一個新男朋友,好好被愛與去愛,舊男友,就等於死去的人,過眼雲煙。

你不會去講一名已死的人的壞話吧!

正常不正常,你可以去選擇的。

深雪覆