His ex – 覆Apple

Zita,

Hi, I've been reading your articles
for many weeks, and I've noticed that it's very useful. Therefore, it
encouraged me to write to you. I've been going out with my boyfriend
for almost 2 years time. And over the two years we've argued a lot,
but we never leave our arguement (argument) overnight. We always get
better really fast. The problem is that he had a 5 years relationship
with his ex-gf, which is the biggest problem for me. Although I know
that he loves me so much now, but I just can't get over it. When we
first went out, he mentioned about his ex's b-day and talked about her
a lot, but now he won't talk at all, because he knows that I don't like
it.


I'm afraid that he still loves her, and I'm just a replacment (replacement).
But every time I get upset because of that, he would get real mad, because
he said I don't trust him.

I'm just afraid that this will never end. What should I do? Should I
trust him? And how would I know that he only has me in his heart? Thanks
you for your time.


Apple


 



Dear Apple︰

我認為你的男朋友只是大意。很多男人也如此,不知道自己正做著傷害女人的事。他以為,提及前度只是懷念的一種,並不了解這會傷到你的心。

我建議每逢他多口又提起,你就嬌嗔地掩著他的唇,說︰「唔淮你又提啊!」

我相信,這比起你發晦氣更有效。你覺得對不對?

深雪覆