第四者 – 覆Edith

Dear
Zita,

I've mailed to you before, thanks
for your useful and prescious (precious) advice.

I'm in love with a doctor, who
has 2 girlfriends already, and I'm his 3rd one. And I've got a boyfriend,
we've been together for nearly 1 year. My boyfriend knows something
is going on, ever since he knew there is someone, he kept on 'watching'
me all the time. I lied to him. I've dated with that doctor for several
times, and I told my boyfriend that we don't have any contact now. My
boyfriend is very suspicious, seems that he is not happy with what I
say/ do. Say, I looked at my watch for 3 times during the movie, he'll
thinks that I want to call that doctor/ waiting the call from that doctor.
I found that is really tough for me.


I've thought of breaking up with him, but that's not for that doctor.
I don't think I'll have a future with that doctor, we just date, that's
all, though I love him. My boyfriend loves me so much, so much that
I don't want to loss someone who is so in love with me. but I found
myself beginning to have difficulties whenever I'm facing him. What
should I do?

On the other hand, I really
want to be that doctor's only girlfriend, what can I do? How can I fight
with his 2 other girlfriends? What should I do?

Yours,


Edith


 



Dear Edith︰

要安撫男朋友,不如提議大家訂婚。

不是要你去結婚,只是給男人一個名份,男人也要安全感。

你愛那個醫生,但明顯他不愛你,如果他愛你,你就不會有兩個對手那麼多。

你想嬴得這個男人的心?但嬴來做甚麼?你迫到他與你一起,不久之後他又會繼續花心。你在他跟前,永遠是輸的那一個。

深雪覆