日日見 – 覆GelGel

Hi Zita︰

I've been dating with my boyfriend for one and a half year. Throughout these days, we've experienced some ups and downs. We are used to seeing each other almost everyday, even if we're in the days of downs. Even though we are just available for two hours at night, we would definitely meet. Thus, we are staying together as long as we are free! This situation seems good coz (cause) we devote all of our spare time to each other, yet on the other hand, regular and frequent meeting between he and I would cause dullness and lack of refreshment! Although I don't sense the existence of this problem for the time being, I realize the risk of having this dilemma in the near future!


I just wanna ask, does always meeting equal to the evolution of this problem? If it really does, then what should I do to prevent? Coz (cause) I'm sure that if I tell him not to see each other so frequently, he'll definitely suspect me instead of knowing that I'm doing so for our sake!

Yours,


GelGel


Dear GelGel︰

如果你認為這是一個問題,便已經構成一個問題,不需要旁人附加支持。

你不用告訴他太深入的感覺,最佳做法是找一些校外課程學習,一星期有兩晚的似乎很合適,最好更有些功課做,你便能夠與他見少了,保證你可以獨處。

從中,你感受一下,見少了是否更快樂。

我認同你的想法,日日見,的確新鮮感盡失,見少兩次,偶有掛念,就不會那麼悶了。

就製造一個合理的距離感吧!

深雪覆