失戀 – 覆Jade

深雪︰

I'm a 25 yrs girl, nearly break up with my 23
years old bf (boyfriend) now. I really don't know why he complain me in such nonsense
reasons, but my ex bf (boyfriend) did too. Both of them love me very
much at the begin (beginning), this one last for 1 year. I hope he is
my last one. But now…...

I cried for few days. I don't want cry

anymore. Last time I nearly
cried for 2 months and got eye problem. I told my friends and talk about
the ex case, all of them said that my ex is too young for me. (Also
yonger (younger) than me 2 years). I really frustrated whether is my
problem or their problem.

Jade


Dear
Jade︰

你決定他有問題抑或你有問題之前,不如買幾本男女關係參考書看看,是否你一直以為你用了對的方法戀愛,然而卻又不然。我推薦的是John
Gray的《Mars and Venus together forever》。

繼而,你靜心檢討一下,你是否那種過於依賴男友與感情的女人。而這種女人,多數會感情失敗。

你知道你的男朋友想要的女友是何模樣嗎?你是否他要的人?倒轉來,你要的男人是他嗎?一直以來,你們有多勉強對方?

失戀是平常事,只要你明白你錯在哪裡便可以。希望,你能放開懷抱去了解。

深雪覆