大話男友 – 覆Poor Mshon

Hello
Zita,

I really
need someone help giving me advice on my love affair.

I live
with my boyfriend for four years. He had asked to break up with me two
weeks ago. The mainly reason he claimed he gave too much without return
from me. I asked him to give me a chance but refused. Trying hard, he
said he need to relax

for
4 months and re-think our relationship should be continue or not.

In between
this period, I found two movie tickets in his pocket. He replied those
are his friends. I found a girl picture in his wallet. He responsed
(responded) that the girl insisted everyone in his department had to
put her photo in their wallet since it's beautiful. I found many in-message
call (more than 30) from a girl in his mobile phone which has been saved.
However, none of my message is being saved. He told me once that girl
has been dated with another guy and he won't date with anybody in his
company.

In this
moment, we still live together and sleep in one bed. He sometimes will
call me and asked where am I but sometimes don't. At night, sometimes
will tell me what happen to him showing his care.

Zita,
would you let me know those are liers (lies) or real explanations? I
cannot figure out as he answered in front of me. I really trust him,
but after I rethink again, I wonder this is truth.

What
should I do? Wait and pretend not discover anything, or asking him I
had found his message calls. But I am afraid he said I don't respect
him.

It really
upset me a lot.

Pls (please)
help and advice asap (as soon as possible). Thanks for yr (your) help.

Poor
Mshon


Dear
Poor Mshon︰

他明顯是大話連篇。之所以他連番大話,因為他仍然未想放棄你,他要一腳踏兩船。

他已向你分手了,無論他的理由是甚麼,他也只是想分手。我的建議是,不如考慮叫他搬走,這樣,你可以冷靜一下,從而想想一個大話王在你心目中究竟是否這樣重要。

不分手,你扮不知情,然後死忍並不是辦法,事關他也明白了你得知他的行徑。他無理由相信,他的大話可以長久地瞞騙你下去吧!你又不是弱能的。你忍他,他只會認為你默許他一腳踏兩船。

分了手,如果他回頭,你就考慮是否仍然原諒他。你一日不分手,他就連向你浪子回頭的機會也沒有。

深雪覆