他會否再致電 – 覆Jensmau

Dear Zita︰

I know a guy for 8 years and we on and off seeing
each other, the pattern was usually I called him and then he asks me
out immediately, he seldom calls me. Even sometimes when I called him,
he always seriously told me that he missed me and want to see me. However,
since his character made me feels insecure

for me, so I always told
myself that he was joking by saying that. But after all these years,
I feel that we always have good times when we were together, and start
to like him.

Well, when we came out last
month, he still shown his interest, but I again ignored him and still
think that he was just joking. But after that this time, I start to
think that may be he is serious to me since he say that for so many
times already, so I called him and told him that I want to see him because
I miss him. But when I called him that time, he was busy and cannot
talk long with me, and said he will call me back.

I want to ask that whether he
will call me or not? Will he think that I am not serious this time,
cause I always ignored him even though this time I told him that I miss
him? Does he scared to call me, cause he does not know what to talk
about?

Could you solve my problems?
Thank you!

Jensmau


Dear
Jensmau︰

我很想知道事情發展如何,究竟,他有沒有再call你?

其實我覺得你們十分奇怪,八年了,常常見面,他又「口口聲聲」說掛念你,但又沒有任何肉體上的接觸,手不拖,又沒有kiss,你們的關係,無論再多甜言蜜語,也只像曖昧的朋友。

你已告訴他你也很掛念他,但你無再說些甚麼。如果他不致電找你,你不如再下一城講得清清楚楚。

不好意思,他是不是gay的?他愛上不了一個女人,但他會很掛念你們的友誼。

太迷離了。

深雪覆