What is he doing? – 覆Apple

Hello
Zita,

I've got an e-card from my ex. He wrote "Happy
Valentines" to me. I do feeling happy but the reality tells me
he is no longer my b-friend (boyfriend) now. I still love him even though
we have broke up for a year. I think he has a girlfriend now and maybe
he just want to be a friend with me now. I swear to myself that not
to

write him anything and
try to let go. Sometimes it is hard to let go everything when I've got
his mail. I'm still dreaming.

Would you please tell me how
to make myself feeling better even I get his message?

Apple


Dear Apple︰

我在情人節時也收到很多e-card,而我相信當中無一張e-card是有「愛情」的愛意,只不過是大家對我的問候與關心。

他給你一張e-card,目的也是關心你。情人節,朋友也可以互相問好。

事情永遠是這樣,你心中有意,就會把一切事物浪漫化。然而真相是怎樣,你與我都清楚。

他不愛你了,但他視你如朋友。你若是不能以同等心情面對他,就不要主動找他,免得自己傷心。

深雪覆