Should I wait for him? – 覆Eliza

Dear
Zita,

I met a guy through friends at Karaoke last month and then that guy
gave me calls and dated me afterwards. At first, I think he's treating
me as an ordinary friend. I found that he didn't want to be friends
with me only as he called me every night.


He invited
me to his home and watched his favourite (favorite) TV programme (program)
together and I did go as I had feelings towards him. We've been out
for several times.

Later, he said
he wanna to develop with me in the future. But I rejected him as I knew
that he has a girlfriend (4 years relationship) and I didn't want to
hurt her gf (girlfriend). He said he's going to break up with her because
he's unhappy with her for a long time. I asked him not to find me until
he's separated with her gf (girlfriend). He said he would but it takes
some time and asked me to wait for him. Should I wait for him? Can he
be trust?

He really doesn't call me now, neither email. I am so unhappy because
I do really wanna see him in fact. Should I call him?

I look forward
for your reply.

Eliza



Dear Eliza︰

我非常贊成你在他跟前的冷靜,他在被你拒絕的一刻,一定十分佩服你,也會為此尊重你。

你的立場十分正確,如果他愛你,就不會忍心要你受做第三者的苦。如果他為了不能立刻得到你而疏遠你,他只是為了一腳踏兩船,這只不過是男人的貪婪與好色。

不要主動致電給他,也不要心軟。

一個不與女友分手的男人,你要來做甚麼?一個得不到你而疏遠你的男人,更不值得你想他一秒半秒。

等不等他?他有意認真的話才算吧!你放長雙眼看吧!

深雪覆