I am very puzzled right now, hope you can give
me some directions!
I got a bf (boyfriend) who is working in HK and
I am studying in US. I met him when I was working as a summer trainee
in an accountant firm. We have been together for almost a year and a
half already. I
go back to HK every summer
and X'mas holidays.
Everything goes on fine until
recently my parents found out our affairs. My mom was suspecting us
from the very beginning but she never asks me. Now that she finally
asked and she knew that we had been together for a long while. She is
mad for two reasons: one is I have not told her the truth and the other
major one is she doesn't like my bf (boyfriend). She thinks that he
is working and will not have a promising future. We are like in different
I don't know what I should do.
On one hand, I don't want my bf (boyfriend) to be upset as my parents
don't like him. On the other hand, I don't want to ruin my relationship
with my parents. I tried to explain to them but they never listened.
Sometimes I feel so upset that
may be I should give up my relationship but I feel so bad because we
are running on fine and he is treating me well. Just that he doesn't
have a good job doesn't mean he won't have any good future. I really
don't understand why my parents are acting like this!
What should I do? Please help