I am happy to find you in this website. Lately
something happened in my life and I hope you can give me some advices.
I am 23 years old. I came back from the states and started working in
Hong Kong last year June. I always change my jobs from one company to
another since last year
I came back. Lately I found this job, as a secretary in a really small
company. I have been working
in this company for almost a month now.
I didn't notice anything wrong, not until the one day, like 4 days after
I worked in this company. I was so sick and my face turns pale (casue
(cause) I was on medication due to my respiratory system's problem).
I went home early on that day, around 3 o'clock in the afternoon. The
same night, it was 9 at night I believes, he called me and ask if I
am OK. From that time on I notice he likes me. He always looks at me
when I am working, he calls me all the time when he is out of the office
for the trivals (travel) matters. I feel that he just fine an excuse
to hear my voice. He treats me very nice, he starts doing my jobs, like
photocopy, filing and many little things without any complains(complaints).
He buys me food during the tea break and even feed me the food, and
now he even calls me during the non-business hour, like 9 at night and
talk to me as he is one of my friends. I can feel he has a crush on
In fact I always expecting a romantic love story happen in my life again.
I broke up with my ex-husband 1998, I still miss him a lot and I always
hope that we can be back together again in the future. Am I too simple?
It seems so impossible cause we had lots of big misunderstanding in
between two of us, I think it is because of the cultural differences.
I feel that I am kind of "emotionally shut down". I don't
know how to start a relationship with someone again, I know my boss
is a nice guy but I am afraid he just want my body. I don't want to
get hurt, I am very scare to love. I am also very confuse and I don't
understand why he treats me so nice. Can you please give me some advices?
Thanks for your attention for reading my mail. May god give you faith
and I hope your life will full of challenges and happiness.