上司的追求 – 覆Jen

Dear Zita︰

I am happy to find you in this website. Lately
something happened in my life and I hope you can give me some advices.
I am 23 years old. I came back from the states and started working in
Hong Kong last year June. I always change my jobs from one company to
another
since last year
I came back. Lately I found this job, as a secretary in a really small

company. I have been working
in this company for almost a month now.

I didn't notice anything wrong, not until the one day, like 4 days after
I worked in this company. I was so sick and my face turns pale (casue
(cause) I was on medication due to my respiratory system's problem).
I went home early on that day, around 3 o'clock in the afternoon. The
same night, it was 9 at night I believes, he called me and ask if I
am OK. From that time on I notice he likes me. He always looks at me
when I am working, he calls me all the time when he is out of the office
for the trivals (travel) matters. I feel that he just fine an excuse
to hear my voice. He treats me very nice, he starts doing my jobs, like
photocopy, filing and many little things without any complains(complaints).
He buys me food during the tea break and even feed me the food, and
now he even calls me during the non-business hour, like 9 at night and
talk to me as he is one of my friends. I can feel he has a crush on
me.

In fact I always expecting a romantic love story happen in my life again.
I broke up with my ex-husband 1998, I still miss him a lot and I always
hope that we can be back together again in the future. Am I too simple?
It seems so impossible cause we had lots of big misunderstanding in
between two of us, I think it is because of the cultural differences.
I feel that I am kind of "emotionally shut down". I don't
know how to start a relationship with someone again, I know my boss
is a nice guy but I am afraid he just want my body. I don't want to
get hurt, I am very scare to love. I am also very confuse and I don't
understand why he treats me so nice. Can you please give me some advices?

Thanks for your attention for reading my mail. May god give you faith
and I hope your life will full of challenges and happiness.

Jen


Dear
Jen︰

你的上司明顯是十分喜歡你。而我認為,你不妨與他相處久一點,才衡量他是個怎樣的人。

不必擔心男人只想要你的肉體這問題,他真是色狼的話,不久之後就會原形畢露,你一看就知。

女人是要被追求的,只要女人凡事冷靜一點,便能避開很多的迷惘。

至於你的前夫,都已是前任了,而且又那麼多麻煩,你也不要想他太多。

細心觀察你的上司吧,看看他是否你想要的?

深雪覆