Over the Phone – 覆Go Go


Hi Zita,

You said that a girl should stayed bright and happy over the phone, then the boy will feel that she's right for him. Then what should a boy do over the phone to make the girl feel great?? What's the tone of the conversation??

Thanks for your advice!! BTW (By the way), your articles are really great!!

Go Go


Dear Go Go︰

男孩子的角色,在追求與言語之上,最好主動一些。女孩子對男人的期望,一如過往好幾千年,女人希望男人在感情上領導她們。不是女人不長進,而是,被追求,被呵護,真是太快樂的事。

當你與她傾電話時,首先準備一些話題,然後像記者訪問明星那樣問她。譬如:「你今日做過甚麼?」、「學校內的一切順利嗎?」、「你的老闆有沒有欺侮你?」

就這樣,她便可以像明星那樣向你報告近況,她有機會把日常細節說出來,她自己覺得好舒服之餘,也感到你是關心她。

不要把dead air的責任推給她,一旦無話,你就要立刻挖出問題來問她。

深雪覆

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