The past or the present – 覆Shirley Poon

深雪︰

Hello, I have went out with my present boyfriend for 8 months, during this time we are already living together.
We were acquaintances from almost 2 years ago.


I have always heard about his rumours with the girls and personally I have quite a reputation myself so i understand not all said is real.

Before I gave in to his interest, I have cleared up some rumours with him to ensure my choice. The rumours within the 2-3 yrs.
In the second month, he started sharing with me his ancient history that were very unpleasant. Very unmoral and bottom line "cheap".


I know if i have heard of these earlier, my choice would have been different.
I know none of this was deliberate, and it is 5-10 yrs. ago, but i am still so scared of his past will somehow be the present again.

I have talk to him about it, but i know there is nothing he can do, does that mean i have to find someone with a little less history. Even though, the past is the only problem in our almost perfect relationship?

Shirley


Shirley:

人有權為任何事情放棄一段感情,你害怕、忍受不了他的過去,亦是一種理由。
正如你自己所說,你也有過去,其實你不介意一個人的過去。你介意的是他那些可怕又不堪入目的事。
戀愛,是想稱心快樂,你這種誠惶誠恐,每天被迫看恐怖片無異。
太辛苦的話,無謂勉強你自己,分手是一件對的事。

深雪覆